I hate hearing this and any other seemingly preventable issues. Honestly, my developers didn't inform me of these pitfalls and I wasn't versed enough to ask for this stuff or if I did, I got an updated estimate in the 10's of thousands. I'm guessing there is no workaround at this point, but I'm considering open up this project to open source, maybe I can resolve some of this stuff in the coming months.
I really do care about this project, always have. Hell, I invested all my savings in it, it means a lot to me, so I'm not giving up yet.
Thanks for the post.